For now, Kristin and Jay are keeping their distance. Prior to their official split, which we now know was a long time coming, the source says they were separately splitting their

For now, Kristin and Jay are keeping their distance. Prior to their official split, which we now know was a long time coming, the source says they were separately splitting their time between the main home and other residences while the kids remained together.

And as for how K.Cav is coping with the sudden upheaval in her personal life, our source says she's staying grounded thanks to her loved ones.

"She's very upset over all of this and is leaning on her close friends right now and focusing on her businesses. Kristin's work is keeping her spirits up and she's very proud of her accomplishments, something Jay never acknowledged," the source notes.